Aqualung-Good Times Gonna Come
I usually try to be pretty candid about the happenings of my life on here (at least the deeply emotional stuff). But at the same time I think a lot can be gained from hearing from complete strangers who have had many similar experiences themselves. It is a nice feeling to know you have this little world of people out there who support you.
That being said, V and I have decided to go out separate ways after a year of being together. It was my choice and as hard as it was to make in the moment, I know in my heart it was the right decision. He understood and said that I had to do what I felt was in my heart. In my heart I felt that I needed to focus on myself and what I really want and see for a partner in my life. Have you guys every been in a relationship where you feel you lost yourself? How did you find yourself again? I pride myself on being very in touch with my thoughts and emotions and it saddens me so much to think that I have lost touch with that. I know that relationships are all about accommodating to other people but to what extent? Have you ever let go of a relationship because you truly felt in your heart of hearts that it was not for you? Did you fear never finding anyone again? People say that you will find the right person but honestly it seems so daunting.
I am excited to enter this new stage in life where I just focus on myself and what I want. I am excited to reconnect with my old self with this newly gained knowledge from this last relationship. I was just wondering if you lovelies had any words of encouragement to help me get through this rough patch.
This world can feel so big and lonely yet when it comes down to it we all experience the same feelings of love and sadness.
I apologize if this post is not what you were expecting on a Friday morning. I just want to say thank you ahead of time for any words of encouragement. I promise a "Friday Finds to Inspire" post is coming later today.
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